big picture
The therapy that I offer is depth-oriented and strongly rooted in Gestalt, somatic, and mindfulness-based modalities, as well as intersectional feminism. It is trauma-informed and client-centered. For those that are interested, I also enjoy using intuition, creativity, and the imaginal realms (imagery, visualization, experiential exercises, art, dreamwork, etc.) to support our explorations.
the details
Here are some of my thoughts and biases that guide my work with clients:
I fervently believe that you (and only you) are the authority of your experience. I am here to offer my curiosities, intuition, and reflections — in dialogue with you — to help you explore and discover your truth.
I am interested in meeting you wherever you are in the present moment, supporting you to increase your awareness. It is my belief that only by increasing our awareness can we increase our felt experiences of agency and choice…which in turn allows us to live a more empowered, aligned, compassionate, and enlivened life.
I orient towards increasing your felt experience of support. This first requires an intimate and comprehensive exploration of what allows you to feel resourced and nourished.
I care deeply about creating a safe container in our therapeutic relationship — to respect boundaries, to always track for consent and choice, to unambivalently welcome all parts of you, to fervently support both your safety and aliveness.
I am passionate about and invested in exploring power, positionality, and privilege. I welcome and support difference, and am committed to efforts to not perpetuate authoritarian and oppressive systems in the therapeutic relationship.
I honor & trust the massively creative and adaptive survival strategies that you have developed to keep you safe. And, I also honor the ways that the habitual enacting of those survival strategies may no longer be serving you — that your circumstances and capacities may have outgrown these mechanisms, and that you may need some support in this vulnerable re-emergence into the world.
I will sit with you in your suffering. I’m not afraid of the darkness, or of your shadow. I will go to the depths with you. And stay there, in the underworld, with you for as long as you need…until you emerge anew on the other side.
I believe that, together, we can co-create a homecoming for you. That our work can guide you home to your innate nature — to your authentic expression of your many parts of self. To your passion and presence and joy. To your aliveness. To feeling deeply nurtured and nourished. A return to self in which you come to truly and intimately know yourself for the first time.
nuts & bolts
I offer counseling for adult individuals and partners experiencing a broad range of life challenges. And, I have extensive experience in supporting folks as they navigate the following content areas:
Grief & loss
Identity
Addiction/distressing relationships with substances
Sexual orientation, sexuality, and sensuality
Creativity
Trauma
Systems & lived experiences of oppression
Communication & relationship issues
Anxiety & fear
Depression & dampened energy/aliveness
Co-dependence
Infidelity, betrayal & trust
Existential crisis/es
Perfectionism
Suicidality
I’m sex-positive, queer, and kink-friendly and welcome all LGBTQ+ & gender-expansive individuals of all ethnic and racial identities and positionalities.